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Negativity
Posted On 06/16/2008 18:28:37 by FieryRedHalo
So I just got my ass kicked in the gym by a trainer, I really needed to get out a little frustration today so I was pushing myself ...probably a lot harder then I should have been but that's ok I worked out a little bit of my frustrations .  Does anyone else have certain people in their lives that they love dearly but they are just so fecking NEGATIVE? You can't cut them out so what do you do? I'm thinking of this as I'm in the gym then I look around at the people there...they don't look happy ...I finished up totally exhausted and stopped at the store on the way home and I look at the people around me everyone seems to be scowling, not just frowning but scowling, they all seem so unhappy and almost angry (and no I don't think it was because of the gas prices lol) I never want my life to be like that but it's hard to stay positive when you have people craming their negativity down your throat! I am absolutely surrounded by it I have friends that should be happy for me that I'm really happy right now ... instead they fill me full of self doubt and make me just want to lock myself away and yes according to you I'll have my heart broken but I'm willing to take that chance, it's my choice ... so either dig it or feck the feck off


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06/17/2008 11:23:12
I agree with you Jules....alot of the time when the people around you are negative towards a new situation, it all comes down to jealousy....they want that situation for themselves but don't have the balls to go and get it.  The negativity comes out as bitterness eating away at them.  Lots of people really, genuinely can't seem to see the silver lining round the grey cloud. 

I have to say that sometimes the silver lining is pretty difficult to see, but at the end of the day, no-one wants to be round negative people, so you snap out of it and appreciate what you have....You're right, you can't cut the negative people out, but I just try to avoid them when i'm feeling a bit wobbly....


06/17/2008 09:02:27

Oh yes!, there are people, that can come in to your life, and can be negative. It use to really upset me,  effect me, to the point, where it would leave you, giving up and sinking in to a pit of despair, putting your hands up and saying what is the point.

This is how I view it now, the minuite I recognise negativity and resist it i.e. "they should not be negative", "why are they finding so many things wrong", "why can't they find the positive in life" etc,  then I become negative about their negativity, and to just notice this with in myself, is usually enough for me to turn it around, and to be the positive I want to be in life, to be true to myself, be the example I wish to see. And in turning it on its head, I have found, that I have gained more understanding, which has lead to a compassion for others. 

There will always be people, that believe they are living a nightmare, and are so convinced by it, that their is nothing you can do to shake them from it, except love them, but most importantly love and be gentle to your self.



06/17/2008 00:57:45

Yeah, I have a few of those peeps in my existence. I think in addition to what Very said, sometimes it's that they want so much for themselves and are so frustrated that they can't be happy for anyone else.

 That's my theory, anyway, and I do find it sad



06/16/2008 20:18:17
bad day at work no bad day with peoples opinions and attitudes towards me yeah! just needed a little time at the gym and a good vent session :) that and a mocha frappaccino is making everything seem a lot better lol


06/16/2008 18:59:30
I think it's just human nature...If it's not the gas prices, it's the economy in general. People are scraping by with 2 incomes (or one person working 2 jobs) and worried about feeding their kids, let alone sending them to college.  Bad day at work? Happens to me a lot. Before you know it, you end up bringing this negativity home w/ you or to the store or wherever. Throw in some personal concerns (health, future plans) etc and it makes for one big melting pot of trouble and negativity.

The key? Release. Exercise is good, swearing after pounding in several nails in a board, better




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