When i come across a new person I will greet them by welcoming them to Rednation and then I let them know the fun that they will have here and the cool and fun people that they will meet Right? Yes I do believe what I say to them because for me I have experienced the warm friendly people here and the fun that is apart of this site(nation) and so I walk around in red bliss all day and can't wait to get back (yes I'm addicted). The other cool thing about this nation is the amount of good looking redheads that are in here, I'm mean some really hot looking girls (I dare anyone 2 disagree) So what's the problem? Well hear in the nation all this is true but not in the outside world. The first problem is the amount of redheads that you'll see in a day, I know reds are scarce but I do see a lot here in chicago and since one of the glamour magazine voted 2005 the year of the redheads there has been an explosion of bottle reds which is cool but the natural redhead (yeah buddy). when I see one of these redheads and because of this nation it's easier for me to speak to them but they won't necessarily will speak back and sometimes all I do is say hi. When I'm at work it's better after they get to know me but they aren't every open when I first speak to them. I know it's my fault I should have understood that the redheads here are in a safe place but out there they don't know a person so they have to be more cautious . please forgive my ignorance because going from hardly knowing any redheads to bam a whole nation of you it's a new thing for me and I love my Gingers. The other let down comes after seeing the amount of beautiful redheads here in the nation and (not that looks matter especially to me ) but I have been pampered and when a person gets pampered they want the pampering to continue and will get upset if the pampering is threatened or taken away and on the outside I ain't being pampered (yes my wife is the most beautiful woman I know) however I need my daily ginger snap/cinnamon toast fix O K I mean a person on drugs loves their family but the addiction has there emotion on lockdown and don't forget the football widow imean their hubbies love them but they better not miss that game. Well anyway reality bites but what do u think?
I think it's great that you put yourself out there and open yourself to new people, even if you only say hi. Too many people, especially in a big city, tend to isolate themselves. And those who don't respond to you....well, they don't know what they're missing.