You join redhedd.com. Make a profile page and choose to leave it on public view. You post a bulletin/blog. Arises other members curiousity. They then satisfy their curious nature by "checking out" your public page. ( Said person can't leave a comment even if they want to because they have to be your "friend" first) ...I guess I'm missing the point as to how this is creepy...
Put your big girl panties on or set your page to private...problem solved!
do i detect a wee bit of uber-sensitivty? - hey, where is the law that says you have to leave messages??.....and who says us ladies don't want to be creepy?...creepy is fun...
ps: I just tried to leave a comment on your wall..apparently someone has to be friends with you first before they can leave a comment...so that may answer your little problem..;p