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Taking a break =(
Posted On 07/20/2009 03:43:14 by Disjurda
I'm going to be taking a break from Redhedd for awhile, and all other sites I'm on. I'm having some marital issues...

Ok here goes.

For those of you who have been keeping up on my blogs, when Devins dad died last last month, he took it really hard. And I've been doing everything I can to help him out. But...ever since then..his anger issues have skyrocketed. He took a class on it, and it was like nothing happened. He got a nice certificate, saying he completed it, but it just keeps getting worse. He gets home, and yells. No more hugging...touching...nothing. Its gotten to the point where I look at the clock and go "2:30..shit. Wonder what i did now" 
 We finally came to blows tonight. I was crying, and asking him what I was doing to make him so mad.
   "Nothing. You're the only one I can yell at that it doesnt matter. You can't fire me"

...

So I start crying harder, and I tell him that he needs to figure it out, because our marriage is on the rocks right now. I can't handle being yelled at everyday when I haven't done anything. And he just stared at me.



I'll try and be back on in a week. Maybe give you an update or something. I love you all.


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07/21/2009 01:26:21

Oh sweetie I'm so sorry.

By "we finally came to blows tonight" ... please tell me you DON'T mean he hit you? 

I wish you all the best! Please check back in with us and let us know how it's going, k?



07/20/2009 14:44:30
I m so sorry, hope everything works out for you.


07/20/2009 14:19:20
SO SORRY to hear about your present heartache, Sweet Lady! I'll be thinking of you (two) and will pray that he has a moment of epiphany and realizes ALL that he's doing that's unfair and wrong!

Hang in there! (big hug)


07/20/2009 07:26:18
Oh love I'm so sorry you have to go through this my heart goes out to you  I hope the two of you can get it fixed...


07/20/2009 07:00:15
Hey I am really sorry to hear what you are going through .. nobody deserves aggressive forms of behaviour in a relationship and I hope you get it sorted soon!




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